i have a really small weiner measuring about 4.25"L and 4"W and i was wondering.. if i cater a random girl at a night club or some other write of gathering what do you evaluate the percentage is that she ordain be disappointed with my small penis if we were to hook up? i understand that this would be pure speculation but i am really curious to get a woman's opinion on this i feel that i can act confident and start a conversation with girls but i just cant close the deal because of my insecurity i am the oldest virgin i know at 26 year old its insane on how many relationships i totally screwed up and how many girls i let go me by because of my small weiner size and i know that most of these girls were either hurt or insulted because i rejected them anyways i got a little offtopic but im really curious on what you guys think the percentage would be. 9/10 would be disappointed? 8/10?
As a similarly under-endowed male. I would not suggest the pick-up scene where performance and cock status would be likely to be a higher priority with the women ie sex athletics is more common in the pick-up scene. Meeting women in shared activities of some sort building the personal relationship and then sex would makes more sense to me.
I can't guess percentages but I accept it would be far higher than would happen if you did not try the "pick up" strategy at bars and instead got to know someone who cared about you first. I understand what you are feeling. Try to displace out the desperation to get laid and put your emotional energy into building a relationship and let things come about naturally. Date your right hand in the meantime so you will be thinking clearly. (change surface have a threesome with your left hand on occasion.)Read up on sex books and/or advice forums and when the time comes do what she seems to enjoy.
It’s not an admission that bigger is better. It is an admission that immature people or those with no emotional connection can say hurtful things. Here’s the way it works. Young woman (18-24) is approached by guy. Players play with an attitude girls and guys. The mood is one of trying to become physically hint before there is any emotional intimacy. The atmosphere is one of “what’s in it for me?” Phrased another way there is an air of competitiveness and expectation at work. Sexual athleticism as someone said. Despite the wish of just about every teenage guy women tend not to easily slip into the “it’s only sex so let’s undergo fun” mode. Maybe things are different today? I guess not as different as a lonely teenage guy would like. Women-girls undergo find to the internet. They see porn with its oversized members. They communicate. They as one poster said on another thread communicate about things they don’t know anything about. In request to be perceived as knowledgeable even if they undergo had very little undergo and in an attempt to act the upper hand in the relational move they try to put a guy in his place by making him feel insecure just as they feel. They like to say that a big one is exceed. Porn tells them this. Their friends who appear cool express them this. (the friends may not have much experience but they will lie so they will be alter) The women-girls therefore approach the be with this mindset. They see the guy wanting a one night rest as a semi-predator trying to get sex. They don’t conclude they owe him anything. He drops his pants. It’s not like the porn star’s or what their friend said her bf was desire. She says. “gee it’s small” Or perhaps she truly is a size promote. The guy is crushed. It’s not small and would bring home the bacon just fine but everyone involved is too inexperienced and immature to know that or she is emotionally disconnected and is just treating him desire trash. Plus being a virgin he is probably not going to knock her socks off with his expertise. He will come away feeling bad about himself and how he did in bed. What he lacks in undergo he will blame on not being horse-hung. If there was an emotional connection she would not be so harden and would not say it. If she was older she would know that a big one is not necessary because of her undergo and would not say something like that. Therefore he should avoid one night stands and build an emotional connection first with women-girls his age. That is the point and the reasoning behind it.
What curious said makes sense. I am 47 and undergo had many sexual partners here's some likely scenarios:1) you ordain meet a lovely girl who is looking for a desire call relationship. You ordain fall in like with her and vice versa. She will genuinely love your small dick.2) you ordain cater a young inexperienced girl who will tell you bigger is better she ordain not feel this in her heart but ordain say it because she construe a lot of sensationalist magazine articles in Cosmopolitan. She will be unaware that she is hurting your feelings as she lacks emotional undergo too.3) You will meet a real size promote who is up for a night of filthy sex. Her last boyfriend was 9 inches and she is all stretched out. She will be genuinely disappointed with your penis coat and ordain express you this. You will become depressed and desire you hadn't taken her home in the first place. In a world where sex is so over-hyped women have go to see the well-hung muscular lover as a totem much in the way immature young boys have posters of big titted blonde babes on their protect. What mindset the woman you meet is in ordain cause her reaction to your penis. You can therefore choose to furnish yourself from hurt by building up a relationship first (my preferred option) or you can undergo a "I don't furnish a damn" attitude develop a thick skin and screw as many girls as you wish to.
2) you will meet a young inexperienced girl who ordain tell you bigger is better she ordain not conclude this in her heart but ordain say it because she construe a lot of sensationalist magazine articles in Cosmopolitan. She will be unaware that she is hurting your feelings as she lacks emotional undergo too.
I have to ingeminate this because I notice a lot of guys throwing Cosmopolitan out there as the source of this bias. My ex and I used to read Cosmo together (Along with Maxim. And on cause nudie rags featuring men and women. The "gay" ones that is ones that only featured men nude and were marketed toward gay males be to feature the greatest be of body types and penis sizes. I don't know what that's supposed to tell anyone. Probably the same thing as the fact Playgirl released an entire book of Girl-on-Girl erotica; not lesbian girl-on-girl. The thing ends in a MFF threesome. Great book by the way. Better read than the Bible.) and on the few occasions that it mentioned the coat of the guy's dong there was only one measure it scored it negatively and that was in one of those little Quizzes where it asked what you first thought when you saw your boyfriend naked. It was +1 point for something like. "What a Hunk.". 0 points for "It could be a little bigger" and -5 points for "I was jealous of his boobs." So not too bad. And the other time was a poll in which 96%---yes. I typed that alter ninety-six percent--- of the women surveyed said that thrusting technique was far more important than coat in determining a good lover. Of cover that was British Cosmo so maybe the lesson is that we all be to act to Britain.
Sorry - didn't mean to anger any Cosmo lovers just picked that call at random. I was really drawing attention to a slightly cruel trend in some women's.
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